24 Signs Your Soulmate Is Thinking of You or Looking for you

When thinking of soul mates, our mind usually goes to couples such as Romeo and Juliet or Cleopatra and Marc Anthony – couples with an intense, passionate love for one another.

While these love stories might give us inspiration for our own love lives, often our relationships turn out to be incompatible and lackluster. That’s why it feels so special once you meet that person. The one that makes all your previous relationships pale in comparison, your soulmate.

The two of you share a planetary link and bond that transcends words. This bond can be so strong that you may even be able to sense when you are on their mind. But how would you know?

Luckily for you, we’ve put together a list of 24 signs your soulmate is thinking of you.

But before we continue with the list, how do you know someone is your soulmate in the first place?

How do you know you found your soulmate?

First of all, there is a common misconception there that we can only have one soulmate.

According to the oxford dictionary, a soulmate is “a person ideally suited to another as a close friend or romantic partner”.

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There are many people out there for you who would meet these criteria. So, while it’s important to have high standards, you shouldn’t be too nit-picky when it comes to love.

“A soulmate is someone who understands you like no other, loves you like no other, will be there for you forever, no matter what.”Cecilia Ahern

You’ll know when it is you’ve found your soulmate. It might not even be love at first sight. After spending some time together, you’ll be able to feel it.

Ultimately, you’ll know when you’ve found that person when you love and accept them wholly, with all their flaws, for who they are. No one is perfect and convincing yourself the ‘perfect’ relationship is out there will do you more harm than good.

Finding your soulmate means accepting both the strengths and weaknesses of one another. It means being willing to grow as people together.

Whether you’ve found the one for you or you’re still looking – have a look at these powerful signs your soulmate is thinking of you.

24 Signs Your Soulmate is Thinking Of You or Looking For You

Btw. We prepared an article with 10 signs that will tell you if you’re in love (link opens in a new window). It might be worthy of taking a look 😊

1. You’re smiling a lot

We should all make an effort to smile more.

It’s a great habit to pick up. Not only is your smile infectious, but people are drawn to those with smiles on their faces.

But what about when you start smiling for no good reason? Or when you feel happy for no good reason?

This could be a sign your soulmate is thinking of you.

2. You feel the positive energy around you

Even when you’re miles away from each other, your mind can reciprocate the positive or negative energies one may be experiencing.

So, when you suddenly sense a positive vibe around you, it could be one of the signs your soulmate is thinking of you.

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3. A desire to be with them

When you’re in love with someone, it’s a perfectly normal feeling to want to be around that person all the time.

You’ll plan your day around spending time with them, even if it means making sacrifices.

Of course, there’ll be times it’s not possible to be together, but when you get a sudden urge to be with them – you can take this as a sign they are thinking about you.

4. You hear their voice

There may be times when you’re busy at work or generally lost in thought, and out of nowhere, you hear the voice of your significant other.

It often occurs when you feel nervous or uneasy in a certain situation and comes as a voice of calmness, soothing your anxiety.

Not only is this an indicator of the strength of the bond between the two of you, but it is also a sign that you are on their mind at that time.

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5. Hiccups

In most cases, hiccups occur due to an involuntary contraction of your diaphragm muscle. This happens when you eat too fast, drink too much alcohol, or eat something that doesn’t agree with your digestive system.

What about when you get them randomly?

Throughout history, people have used random hiccups to sign that someone is thinking about them at the time. It could be one of the signs your soulmate is thinking of you.

6. Having dreams about them

Dreams are a fascinating phenomenon.

According to Dr. Patrick McNamara, two people can share the same dream. Thousands of cases have been documented, mostly between people who share a close blond.

When you are very close to someone, even your consciousness can form a bond of sorts. You might even feel like you can read each other’s minds sometimes.

Therefore, when you dream of your soulmate, this could very well be one of the signs they are thinking about you.

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7. Sneezing

In some parts of Asia, there is a belief that your nose may begin to itch if someone is thinking about you.

As you already know, an itchy nose leads to sneezing.

The belief is that if you sneeze three times in a row or more, then that special someone is thinking positive thoughts about you at that moment.

8. They’re always on your mind

The universe is all about energy. It matches your personal vibration.

In other words, whatever you put in is what comes back to you.

If you have overwhelming thoughts about your significant other and can’t seem to get them off your mind, there is a reason for that.

They are probably thinking about you too.

9. They frequently check up on you

Probably one of the most obvious signs your soulmate is thinking of you is when they keep checking up on you.

It might just be a daily text during their lunch break at work. If you don’t live together, it might be a quick phone call in the morning.

Naturally, it will be most common when you are far apart. They’ll be worried about your safety and will want you to keep them updated for their peace of mind.

Before checking up on you, they must have first been thinking about you. They probably even have the contacts of people you are around, if in case.

10. Goosebumps

Goosebumps can occur for a variety of reasons. They happen when you’re cold, when you’re scared, or when you’re feeling heightened emotions.

So, unless you’re cold or scared, random goosebumps are likely to mean your significant other is thinking about you.

You’ll know this because they’ll come with a feeling of assurance and comfort rather than as a reaction to discomfort.

11. They surprise you

When you have a deep bond with someone, chances are you’ll want to surprise them at some point.

Whether it’s a gift, a holiday, vouchers, or a romantic dinner, there are many ways for your significant other to surprise you. Not only that, but they will not get tired of surprising you as it helps keep the relationship fresh and exciting.

They went out their way to plan something for you is a sure sign that you are on their mind frequently.

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12. Sudden burst of energy

Have you ever had those days where you’re feeling extra lethargic – yet all of a sudden, snap out of it and are inspired to go out and do things?

Energy is everywhere around us. It flows from all living things. Thus, certain things take our energy, and other things replenish our energy.

When someone is thinking about you, they are directing their energy, positive or negative, in your direction. So, when you get a positive, spontaneous rise in energy, it’s one of the signs your soulmate is thinking of you.

13. An urge to improve yourself

For a soulmate you are yet to meet, there are also signs they are subconsciously thinking about you.

Your soul is actively planning for your soulmate, even if you don’t realize it yet.

Do you ever feel like there’s this unseen force that motivates you to get rid of all the bad habits in your life, as well as becoming the best person you can be?

A sudden need to get your life in order?

These feelings aren’t coincidental. They happen because your soulmate is out there and thinking about you – your souls are trying to connect.

14.  You start to see love everywhere

Wherever you go, you can’t help but notice feelings of love. It could be watching romantic movies, seeing couples show affection in public, hearing love songs, etc.

Not only that but rather than leaving you feeling lonely, these feelings motivate you. You feel as if something special is coming your way. It’s in the air, so to speak.

This is another sign that your soul is preparing itself for your soulmate and vice versa.

15.  Feeling their touch when they’re not around

Have you ever had the sensation of someone touching you, only to realize no one else was around you?

This can be quite a frightening experience, and your mind may drift straight to ghosts or something paranormal. There’s a good explanation for this feeling, however.

If someone thinks about you strongly enough, their thoughts can actually manifest into a physical message. In a way, it’s thought to be a type of telepathy created by intense thoughts.

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16. Hearing ‘your’ song

Most couples have a certain song that they claim as their own, one that they listened to a lot in the initial stages of the relationship.

Hearing the song fills you with powerful emotions, and chances are, if you hear it randomly in public or on the radio, your soulmate is currently thinking of you.

17.  Eye twitches

Eye twitches usually occur when we haven’t had enough sleep recently.

But did you know there is also a famous superstition that twitching of the eye is an indicator that someone out there is thinking about you.

It even goes so far as to specify that a twitch in your left eye signifies positive thoughts about you whilst a twitch in the right eye means someone is directing negative thoughts your way.

So, unless you have a medical condition or are feeling tired, a twitch in your left eye could be one of the signs your soulmate is thinking of you.

18. Finding a white feather

A white feather is one of the most well-known angelic signs out there.

Not only does it symbolize faith and protection, but it’s a sign that someone you miss is also thinking about you. It’s one of the universes’ ways to show you they feel the same way.

19. You get a weird feeling that someone’s thinking of you

If you ever feel that someone’s thinking of you, then there’s a good chance that they are. Our gut usually isn’t wrong; so when we get feelings about something, it would behoove us to trust them deep down in our souls, so when you get a feeling about something good or bad then trust it.

Deep down we know when someone will call us back and if they’re thinking of us because the soul connection between our souls is that strong. If this same connection can extend out into your soulmate, then your instincts telling you if they think of you probably have merit as well.

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20. You feel inspired and motivated

One of the most obvious signs you’ve found your soulmate and that they are thinking about you is if instead of feeling hopeless, negative, or unmotivated like before in life, now for the first time ever – all these thoughts have suddenly been replaced with being inspired to take on new challenges.

You have been feeling bold enough to come out of your comfort zone and try new things, you spontaneously spring into action at any given opportunity. You are getting fit, living healthy, chasing your goals, and learning new things because you want to do the things that add value to your life so it will be easier for this person who is thinking about you.

21. You Finally Understand the Lessons of Your Past Relationships

You are now more confident in your future and have a better understanding of the past.

When you finally let go of all your past heartbreaks and stop being so hard on yourself, everything starts to make sense because all those mistakes you made before no longer feel like burdens; instead, they became lessons that lead you here to being yourself right now.

You see each life lesson as a step towards the perfect union with that special someone who is waiting for you patiently. All it takes is an open mind and believing in what’s right now.

22. Your cheeks begin to burn

When you feel like someone is thinking of you, your cheeks might start to burn.

This burning sensation that starts in your cheeks can be common if someone has been thinking about you, but it may not necessarily mean it’s your twin flame. If the warmth continues and occurs with any other signs on this list then there’s definitely something to look into!

23. Suddenly feel very emotional

You have your own ways of expressing emotions, but what happens if suddenly you find yourself feeling extremely emotional when it’s not appropriate or knowing why. This can happen because someone who has strong feelings for you may be thinking of you at that moment in time.

24. You feel a sudden urge to have your soulmate around you

If you’re feeling an overwhelming need for them, it’s because they’re thinking of how much they want to be with you.

Twin souls share one soul and thus think about the other person as much as possible- which means that when your soulmate thinks about how badly he or she wants to be next to their love, then so do we!

It can seem like magic but really our connection is just deeper than many others.

How to help your soulmate find you?

1. Believe that soulmates exist

Before rushing into the dating scene again, work on yourself first by believing that soulmates actually exist. Trust me; this will help you immensely because having faith in something alone can bring about helpful changes both inside and outside of yourself!

Having positive thoughts means leads towards a positive future. It is all about how you think of yourself so keep a positive outlook on your life and love!

2. Do something different

If you are constantly looking for love in the same places or hanging out with the same people, perhaps it’s time to do something new like volunteering at a nursing home or engaging in other social activities. Doing something different may attract more attention from people that can connect well with you.

The best way to meet someone special is taking chances in life because you never know what’s waiting at the next corner after a new, positive experience.

It could be anyone, so always stay open-minded and try out new hobbies or activities that will take you out of your comfort zone! Letting go can really help loosen inhibitions and bring about positive changes in one’s life.

3. Don’t feel pressure

It takes time to find someone special, and even though some couples have met after one night, this does not mean that everyone will experience the same thing!

If you rush into a date too quickly, chances are things won’t work out as planned because there was no time to get to know the other person properly. So take your time and just let things happen naturally as they would. Be patient, for love is worth all the wait!

4. Be confident and don’t be too picky

When you are searching for love, do not allow your self-esteem to suffer!

Have faith in yourself, and always remember that if someone cannot see your value, chances are it’s not worth wasting time on.

If you get too picky about physical appearances, it doesn’t matter what the other person has to offer, and no one will be good enough for you! You have to know how to compromise and look at the bigger picture too.

Consider looking beyond looks because if you can see past what’s on the outside and learn more about someone else’s personality, chances are there might be a potential soulmate waiting right around the corner for you!

Know your worth and don’t settle for less because whatever happens or whoever comes along, love can only find those who believe in it most of all! When you start to fall in love with yourself, you will find the confidence to search for your other half.

5. Be true to self

Also, know that your soulmate is out there looking for you too!

So while you are busy doing things differently and trying out new activities, trust that the universe will help bring about a meeting of souls, and all this waiting will be worth it in time!

If you want a partner who truly values and cherishes every part of you, then start by valuing and cherishing yourself first.

If they don’t value the real person behind, then chances are they won’t last long!

It’s important always to see the good in people so that no matter what happens, someone special will come around eventually and love you the way you deserve to be loved!

6. Keep positive thoughts!

Finding love is always possible if you keep a positive outlook, have faith in the universe, and wait for good things to happen. Love will come when you least expect it, so be open-minded and don’t feel pressured by others or yourself to rush into this decision because if you do, it won’t make the experience any less special!

If someone truly connects with you from within, they will still want to spend time with you even if what’s on the outside doesn’t match their preferences exactly.

Love comes from the heart, but sometimes we need someone else to put us back in touch with our true self again before letting love in.

7. Keep an Open Mind

A positive attitude is a key to attracting good things into your life, so don’t give up! Instead, keep an open mind and don’t shut yourself off from love because you are waiting for something specific to happen!

Love is all around us, so why not let it find you for years?  Someone may be looking for their other half too, and when the time comes, they’ll come across each other! If you keep your eyes open and have faith in the universe, then the chances of meeting the right person will be better than ever before.

8. Be realistic about your expectations

Know that it might not happen at once or even within the required time frame, but focus on yourself and trust that things will eventually fall into place exactly as they should!

Love is not always meant to happen right away or too soon.

If you want to attract a partner who loves your true self, start by loving yourself first!  

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Key Takeaways

Finding and enjoying life with a soulmate is potentially one of the most rewarding and enriching experiences the universe has to offer.

Contrary to an unhealthy relationship, a bond with your soulmate will allow you both to grow as people and learn from one another, rather than tearing each other apart.

It’s a special gift from the universe and not one you should take for granted.

It’s also a gift that is available to everyone with the right attitude towards life.

Your soulmate is thinking about you right now. Whether you’ve already met or are destined to meet, they are out there.

It’s one thing to be given signs your soulmate is thinking of you, but it’s another thing altogether to be aware of these signs.

Not only will it strengthen your bond, but it increases your overall awareness of the energy around you and the power of your thoughts.