When thinking of soul mates, our mind usually goes to couples such as Romeo and Juliet or Cleopatra and Marc Anthony – couples with an intense, passionate love for one another.
While these love stories might give us inspiration for our own love lives, often our relationships turn out to be incompatible and lackluster. That’s why it feels so special once you meet that person. The one that makes all your previous relationships pale in comparison, your soulmate.
The two of you share a planetary link and bond that transcends words. This bond can be so strong that you may even be able to sense when you are on their mind. But how would you know?
Luckily for you, we’ve put together a list of 18 signs your soulmate is thinking of you.
But before we continue with the list, how do you know someone is your soulmate in the first place?
How do you know you found your soulmate?
First of all, there is a common misconception there that we can only have one soulmate.
According to the oxford dictionary, a soulmate is simply “a person ideally suited to another as a close friend or romantic partner”.
There are many people out there for you who would meet these criteria. So, while it’s important to have high standards, you shouldn’t be too nit-picky when it comes to love.
“A soulmate is someone who understands you like no other, loves you like no other, will be there for you forever, no matter what.” – Cecilia Ahern
You’ll know when it is you’ve found your soulmate. It might not even be love at first sight. After spending some time together, you’ll be able to just feel it.
Ultimately, you’ll know when you’ve found that person when you love and accept them wholly, with all their flaws, for who they are. No one is perfect and convincing yourself the ‘perfect’ relationship is out there will do you more harm than good.
Finding your soulmate means accepting both the strengths and weaknesses of one another. It means being willing to grow as people, together.
Whether you’ve found the one for you or you’re still looking – have a look at these powerful signs your soulmate is thinking of you.
18 Signs your soulmate is thinking of you
Btw. We prepared an article with 10 signs that will tell you if you’re in love (link opens in a new window). Might be worthy of taking a look 😊
1. You’re smiling a lot
We should all make an effort to smile more.
It’s a great habit to pick up. Not only is your smile infectious, but people are drawn to those with smiles on their faces.
But what about when you start smiling for no good reason? Or when you feel happy for no good reason?
This could be a sign your soulmate is thinking of you.
2. You feel positive energy around you
Even when you’re miles away from each other, your mind is able to reciprocate the positive or negative energies one may be experiencing.
So, when you suddenly sense a positive vibe around you, it could be a one of the sings your soulmate is thinking of you.
3. A desire to be with them
When you’re in love with someone, it’s a perfectly normal feeling to want to be around that person all the time.
You’ll plan your day around spending time with them, even if it means making sacrifices.
Of course, there’ll be times it’s not possible to be together, but when you get a sudden urge to be with them – you can take this as a sign they are thinking about you.
4. You hear their voice
There may be times when you’re busy at work or generally lost in thought and out of nowhere, you hear the voice of your significant other.
It often occurs when you are feeling nervous or uneasy in a certain situation and comes as a voice of calmness, soothing your anxiety.
Not only is this an indicator on the strength of the bond between the two of you, but it is also a sign that you are on their mind at that time.
In most cases, hiccups occur due to an involuntary contraction of your diaphragm muscle. This happens when you eat too fast, drink too much alcohol or eat something that doesn’t agree with your digestive system.
What about when you get them randomly?
Throughout history, people have used random hiccups as a sign that someone is thinking about them at the time. It could be one of the signs your soulmate is thinking of you.
6. Having dreams about them
Dreams are a fascinating phenomenon.
According to Dr Patrick McNamara, it is possible for two people to share the same dream. Thousands of cases have been documented, mostly between people who share a close blond.
When you are very close to someone, even your consciousness can form a bond of sorts. You might even feel like you can read each other’s minds sometimes.
Therefore, when you dream of your soulmate, this could very well be one of the sings they are thinking about you.
In some parts of Asia, there is a belief that if someone is thinking about you, your nose may begin to itch.
As you already know, an itchy nose leads to sneezing.
The belief is that if you sneeze three times in a row or more, then that special someone is thinking positive thoughts about you at that moment.
8. They’re always on your mind
The universe is all about energy. It matches your personal vibration.
In other words, whatever you put in is what comes back to you.
If you have overwhelming thoughts about your significant other and can’t seem to get them off your mind, there is a reason for that.
They are probably thinking about you too.
9. They frequently check up on you
Probably one of the most obvious signs your soulmate is thinking of you is when they keep checking up on you.
It might just be a daily text during their lunchbreak at work. If you don’t live together, it might be a quick phone call in the morning.
Naturally, it will be most common when you are far apart. They’ll be worried about your safety and will want you to keep them updated for their peace of mind.
Before checking up on you, they must have first been thinking about you. They probably even have the contacts of people you are around, if in case.
Goosebumps can occur for a variety of reasons. They happen when you’re cold, when you’re scared, or when you’re feeling heightened emotions.
So, unless you’re cold or scared, random goosebumps are likely to mean your significant other is thinking about you.
You’ll know this because they’ll come with a feeling of assurance and comfort rather than as a reaction to discomfort.
11. They surprise you
When you have a deep bond with someone, chances are you’ll want to surprise them at some point.
Whether it’s a gift, a holiday, vouchers, or a romantic dinner, there are many ways for your significant other to surprise you. Not only that, but they will not get tired of surprising you as it helps keep the relationship fresh and exciting.
The fact they went out their way to plan something for you is a sure sign that you are on their mind frequently.
12. Sudden burst of energy
Have you ever had those days where you’re feeling extra lethargic – yet all of a sudden, snap out of it, and are inspired to go out and do things?
Energy is everywhere around us. It flows from all living things. Thus, certain things take our energy and other things replenish our energy.
When someone is thinking about you, they are directing their energy, positive or negative, in your direction. So, when you get a positive, spontaneous rise in energy, it’s one of the signs your soulmate is thinking of you.
13. An urge to improve yourself
For a soulmate you are yet to meet, there are also signs they are subconsciously thinking about you.
Your soul is actively planning for your soulmate, even if you don’t realise it yet.
Do you ever feel like there’s this unseen force that motivates you to get rid of all the bad habits in your life, as well as becoming the best person you can be?
A sudden need to get your life in order?
These feelings aren’t coincidental. They happen because your soulmate is out there and thinking about you – your souls are trying to connect.
14. You start to see love everywhere
Wherever you go, you can’t help but notice feelings of love. It could be watching romantic movies, seeing couples show affection in public, hearing love songs etc.
Not only that, but rather than leaving you feeling lonely, these feelings motivate you. You feel as if something special is coming your way. It’s in the air so to speak.
This is another sign that your soul is preparing itself for your soulmate, and vice versa.
15. Feeling their touch when they’re not around
Have you ever had the sensation of someone touching you, only to realise no one else was around you?
This can be quite a frightening experience and your mind may drift straight to ghosts or something paranormal. There’s a good explanation for this feeling, however.
If someone thinks about you strongly enough, their thoughts can actually manifest into a physical message. In a way, it’s thought to be a type of telepathy created by intense thoughts.
16. Hearing ‘your’ song
Most couples have a certain song which they claim as their own, one that they listened to a lot in the initial stages of the relationship.
Hearing the song fills you with powerful emotions and chances are, if you hear it randomly in public or on the radio, your soulmate is currently thinking of you.
17. Eye twitches
Eye twitches usually occur when we haven’t had enough sleep recently.
But did you know there is also a famous superstition that twitching of the eye is an indicator that someone out there is thinking about you.
It even goes so far to specify that a twitch in your left eye signifies positive thoughts about you whilst a twitch in the right eye means someone is directing negative thoughts your way.
So, unless you have a medical condition or are feeling tired, a twitch in your left eye could be one of the signs your soulmate is thinking of you.
18. Finding a white feather
A white feather is one of the most well-known angelic signs out there.
Not only does it symbolise faith and protection, but it’s a sign that someone you miss is also thinking about you. It’s one of the universes’ ways to show you they feel the same way.
For a soulmate who has passed away, it’s also a way for your Angel to let you know they are safe and happy in heaven or their next life.
It’s one thing to be given signs your soulmate is thinking of you, but it’s another thing altogether to be aware of these signs.
Not only will it strengthen your bond, but it increases your overall awareness of the energy around you and the power of your thoughts.
Finding and enjoying life with a soulmate is potentially one of the most rewarding and enriching experiences the universe has to offer.
Contrary to an unhealthy relationship, a bond with your soulmate will allow you both to grow as people and learn from one another, rather than tearing each other apart.
It’s a special gift from the universe and not one you should take for granted.
It’s also a gift that is available to everyone with the right attitude towards life.
Your soulmate is thinking about you right now. Whether you’ve already met or are destined to meet, they are out there.